A simple idea to carry into the new year: you don’t have to manage everything or everyone. Sometimes the best thing you can do is give yourself permission to pause. This thought is particularly important as the deep winter months set in, making it the perfect time to take a quiet day—or even a weekend—to slow down and recharge after the rush of the holidays.

Start the morning with a warm cup of coffee in your favorite mug, watching the soft, crisp light outside. Later, put on the fireplace, make yourself a cup of tea, light a candle, and lose track of time with a good book. And when the day winds down, grab a bottle of wine, a pair of glasses for you and your partner, remember a cheese plate would be great to add, and let the quiet linger just a little longer.

Taking time for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s what helps you show up fully for everything (and everyone) else for the rest of the year.

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